Hey Kerry, good idea, mention the scan, but don't remind him. Then its completely up to him if he remembers or not. I think you know your situation the best, and what will be best for you and your baby. You don't need the extra stress! Like I said, do what you htink is best for your situation.
Ashlea's dad is great most of the time with her, but wont help out financially except what he has to pay for child support cause he doesnt want to think he is helping me out. Stupid Males (no offense to any!)