Earthmama firstly congrats on your pg and also on your wonderful attitude. I wish you well with your future. I hope that you find happiness with or without your babies father. I guess you need to give him the opportunity to decide what he would like his role to be in the babies life and then you can decide where to go in that respect. My bf (now DH) was 19 as was I when I got pg and he knew that regardless of his decision I was going to have our baby. I didn't put pressure on him to stay because of the baby and I think that made him able to decide what he wanted in life. We are now 11 yrs down the track with 4 kids and a house and are married. Either way though I would have cherished my baby and gave them everything I could just as I know you will.

Good luck
Michelle