Greetings All

Thought I'd share my story and see if anyone here is able to suggest any advise or thoughts.

I've just discovered I'm 4 weeks pregnant...so I am to be a single mum, I think.

The father is a beautiful man, but a young man, 4 years younger than me, 23 years old to be precise! He's a very good friend, and someone I have loved deeply this year...and we were only together a few times, and that was it. We're still very close friends.

I only just got the news, and haven't told him yet. Sure, a huge part of me can only dream that he will choose to be with us both...but I am 100% ready to have this child, and know I can give the little one everything they need, I'm very independent and self sufficient, always have been that way.

I'll be doing this alone if I have to, but I won't really be alone, I've got wonderful support around me from friends and family. Lucky me!

This will be such a beautiful baby. I'm very excited!!! There's a bit of confusion inside in regard to it all, especially the father's role in regard to me and the baby...but above all, I'm flying inside at the concept.

Good on all you single mums out there, go girls!!! Women DO NOT need to be in a relationship to be a fantastic mother!

O