yep I slip it in every now and then, but been married to a typical aussie bloke I dont normally talk much about it when he is home... its not that in homophobic ( sp?) its just that he know as I do in the back of our mind that DS could very well be Gay, this is just something I have a " feeling " about for quite sometime now, just little things he has said, I was actully going to pm and ask you about it, like what age you knew and stuff, coz Ds is 9 so I think he might be starting to work things out is he is, and I dont want him to think its a bad thing... BHL just think if we talk about it, then I am putting ideas into his head lol like I said typical male...

Anyway I have told both Ds and DD1 that sometimes its a mum and a mum or a dad and a dad who marry and have kids, ( well I hope by the time they are grown they will be able to marry ) not always a mum and a dad... Ds was very thoughtful DD ( who was 5 at the time ) just said I going to marry a Girl coz boy are yukky lol a year latter she has already had 2 boyfriends so I guess she doesnt think they are so yukky anymore lol..

Ds I am just not sure, but like I said it would shock anyone, if he does turn out gay...