Getting p'd off with FIL now - he managed to drop in to conversation the other day that BIL is spending heaps of time at a friends house with his wife and kids. Obviously implying that BIL is fine around kids and I am being silly. I felt like saying that perhaps their view would change if BIL tried to kill himself out the back while their kids were home.

He also keeps asking despite us repeatedly refusing for DS to go in the front seat of his ute. I don't understand his views - I had a huge car accident a couple of months ago and anyone, particularly a child would have been in serious danger if they had been in the front seat. Everyone commented on this. Yet for some reason he thinks it is alright if DS goes in the front with him?! So irritating.