So instead of helping people learn to be more supportive and tactful and avoid hurting FFers, you would rather they butt out of 'your' area so you can brainstorm ways to combat their comments (even if they are not intending to be hurtful)?? That seems to be counterproductive, don't we all want to be on the same side here? I don't think ANY breastfeeder wants to alienate or hurt a FFer. I certaintly don't and would rather know these things, I want to understand... but we aren't welcome... confused