This is awhile ago post this huge thread was eventually closed because some bullying (not my words) occurred. What was started in a FF thread ended up being a FF vs BF kind of thing. It was confronting at the time and I'm glad it hasn't occurred in such severity since, however, we do occasionally see FF threads being hijacked and what starts off as a good supportive threads ends in a FF vs BF thing. Sad really.

Considering threads have been closed over it- its no wonder some FFers get abit sensitive when a support thread turns into a "you choose to feel guilty, we don't make you feel that way" thing...and then it gets to the point that people don't want to post their real feelings.

Anyway...seen afew of you have said "where does this occur on BB?" well here is an example

Look HERE