CM- i know exactly how u feel!! with my first DS i was in tears in the hospital trying to bf him. one midwife was absolutely wonderful she could see how painful it was and offered me a bottle to give my breasts a break. I didn't end up bf him for long, only 11 days as there were a few issues. But the crap i dealt with from everyone, like its really their business anyway how u feed your own child! This time round i only stayed a night in hosp cause i didnt want to deal with the attitudes of the midwives (a friend had a baby 4wks before me and was stuck with horrible, unsupportive midwives!). Only one was 'bf bf bf' the others told me it was my choice etc.. I took it so personally the first time round with what i was being told at the hosp and by in laws (my SIL is with the aba) but this time i tried not to care and my little man is so content with formula. He refused to bf and if anyone questions me i just say he refused it and is now very happy, so is my older son as he can now feed him and loves it! Best of luck to u with ur new little one!! Aren't babies just so adorable....

Lulu- I would have loved to have seen that womans face!!