CM -please don't feel that you have failed your little man. You made a very tough decision under difficult circumstances. Your son's bright eyes should tell you everything you need to know - he's happy, healthy and full of love for his mummy! I've learned the hard way that the only way to get through this mummy gig is to make a decision and then don't look back. Having said that, if you truly believe you have perhaps acted hastily, all may not be lost. I've heard of women who relactate successfully so the BF road may not be closed to you. Barb would be the best to ask here, or else contact the ABA. Just think carefully before you do, and don't let mean spirited, narrow minded, judgmental people influence your decision.

In case you're worried you will miss out on all that fabulous bonding that BF is supposed to bring, please don't. Bottle feeding times with my DD are beautiful - depending on her mood she will snuggle right in, stroke my face, give me big milky smiles - everything the girls in my baby buddies group say their BF bubs do. The huge advantage I have is that feed times for both my DD and I are enjoyable - not the painful fight they were with BF.