Ta Sally2,

We actually do have an agreement with the donor from several years ago - a couple actually, all with same intent, a couple of different details. The problem is really that the Qld Fertility Group people told us all legal donor agreements are not legally valid and this has made us concerned about the best way to NOT have his name on the birth cert.

We and he don't want it there, just unsure about whether to say unknown or donor. Especially in terms of future family payments, etc.

Do you have more info on non-tummy mummy co-parenting legalities? I didn't think we had any legal rights in Oz?

I hope I have made myself clear - this stuff can get a little confusing - but I am appreciating your advice very much.

ta, freya