Hi there my partner and I used a known donor, we did things differently to how people have previously replied, we met up first to discuss our wants and needs regarding the baby contact or no contact etc etc but for the actual deed, it really depends on what sort of relationship you want with the donor and what works for you all. We literally stopped out the front of his house he passed it to my partner and we left we live close to him just remember the quicker you inseminate it the better good luck