Hello,
I'm new to this site. My partner asked me to find a gay/lesbian parenting forum and I came across this one. We live in the states, on the west coast.
We are going to start TTC in June... it's getting closer... we are using known donor sperm and are very excited to start our family. I'm going to be the birth mother and she is worried the baby won't consider her a mother and the baby won't like her and everything. I've told her time and time again that the baby will love her as much as it will love me regardless of the fact that I will carry it and she won't.
I want to know if anyone else has run into this situation and if anyone has any advice for us or what I can tell her to ease her worries... We still can't decide on any names, at all... we can't comprimise so I'm trying to get one worry out of the way at a time.

BTW My name is Lacey, my partner is Jessica. Thank you very much for reading my post and I hope someone can offer some advice