Please Introduce Yourself!

mayMommy09 · April 18th, 2009, 02:04 PM

Hi...my name is kia and my life partner and I successfully conceived a lovely babygirl due in may of 09

**D&M** · April 19th, 2009, 05:10 PM

congratulations to you both maymommy. I bet you can wait!! its good to see another belybelly follower

take care

**Beth-n-Sara** · April 23rd, 2009, 08:51 PM

Hello to everyone!
I've been floating around the BB site for a while now and thought I'd better say Hi. I'm Bethany (22) and my partner Sara (25) have kinda been TTC since Dec 08. I say kinda because we should have started in Dec but the clinic was closed when we needed them (i missed out by 3 days thanks to my unpredictable cycle), then in Jan i had ne responce to the clomid (50mg) and didn't produce any follicles. We got 1 follicle in Feb, with 100mg clomid, did the IUI but got a BFN. We didnt try in march, the clomid makes me really sick and i wanted a break. And here we are in April, CD 13- I've had my Trigger shot and we're going in for the IuI tomorrow morning.

Big Congratulations to MayMommy, not long to go now.

Thanks Two Mums for asking the question about birth certificates, I was planning on asking the same thing, We're in QLD.
Leasha where do you post the letters to? I'll start writting some too!

Good luck to everyone TTC and congrats to everyone who has gotten their BFP's!

**Indadhanu** · April 24th, 2009, 12:21 PM

Hi guys.

I just email them, go to the Qld Gov website

Good luck for this cycle! Hope everyone gets their BFP this month!

BonanzaJellybean · April 24th, 2009, 08:36 PM

SIZE="6"][COLOR="Purple"]Hi, my name is B.J and I am TTC my first child on my own with a donor! I have never found the right partner, male or female, and since I have never been with a man at age 38 (true!) with a few bad experiences in life (both female and male bashings/rapes), I'm finally ready and Im running out of time, (Therapy takes a lot of your life up indeed!) so now I have my Donor.

I will meet him on 28/4, due to Ov on the 1st May. I am trying to concieve a girl, so there is no point inseminating on Ov day, or it will more than likely be a boy!

I don't want to sound sex bias, but I will be bringing up baby alone, and girls seem to gel better with their single mums.

I am scared, nervous, and fully aware of this huge life changing decision I have made, to bring a 'mini me' into the world and speaking in my artist's voice 'mould and sculpt' a beautiful, confident, well adjusted human being! Well TRY anyhow!

I don't know if it's wrong to want a child to mend a broken heart or if that idea would only cause one, in the grief that my life wasn't what I wished it to be, Uni degrees and all later, but you can have a go or die trying thats what I say! And there is already enough pre jugement in the world as we know in the Rainbow world' of Licorish all sorts, without having to justify the want of a child!

I was a bit confussed about the proceedure, I wrote to Rainbow babies and they didn't know the answer, but I've been told to 'put it (the sperm) in ASAP' as light, air and cool temp kills it off fast!

I am still a little upset that my Psych forced me to tell my GP sooner than i was ready, but its all out there now we know what we're up against, and what we have to do ...........

So, I take a HUGE gulp of breath and cross everything I can and hope it works. I think my donor is excited too, this is his first private donation outside the IVF clinic. Then the trick is to keep it there with my Diabetes the way it is![/SIZE][/SIZE]

**D&M** · April 25th, 2009, 10:28 AM

goodluck bonanza and welcome!!

**Shades** · April 25th, 2009, 04:13 PM

You're not the first to try this path BJ - there are at least another three single lesbians who are pg or ttc on here, including myself. There is support out there if you know where to look - try googling "SMCAustralia" all one word - the first link that comes up may be helpful. I still spend more time here to be honest though.

BonanzaJellybean · April 25th, 2009, 05:11 PM

Thanks Shades! I've had confirmation from my donor and I am feeling so much better, and its nice to know I will have some support on here too! I guess in 16 days I'll know if its worked!

**Shades** · April 25th, 2009, 09:12 PM

Best of luck - and you should probably take that pic in your sig down - it's a bit big for the forum guidelines...

BonanzaJellybean · April 25th, 2009, 09:36 PM

Yep- It ok, I'm just fiddling to see how it all works!

**leah2998** · April 26th, 2009, 03:58 AM

Hello everyone,
I wanted to introduce myself since I am new to BB and TTC. I am Tish(29) and my partner is Cass(27). We have been TTC for a couple months now. The first cycle we went natural to see if I was ovulating and found out that I do not. The cycle we are in now has been very stressful. I started the Clomid 50mg on day 3 and had no response. Started Clomid 100mg on day 9 along with a water sono. Ultra sound showed that I had two mature eggs on day 14. On day 15 Cass gave me a shot to make me ovulate and yesterday, cd 17 we went in for the insemination (IUI). I am trying not to stress. I really want this to work on the first try.... it is very stressful and drawn out waiting on cycles and tests.

We have to wait for 2 weeks to take a pregnancy test. I will have to be optimistic and hope for the best!

**D&M** · April 26th, 2009, 08:18 AM

hello and welcome tish and cass (leah) there is a wealth of info and support here, so you have come to the right place to offload!! goodluck with it all I hope this cycle goes well for you both

**Beth-n-Sara** · April 26th, 2009, 10:17 AM

Hello Tish and Cass. Welcome to BB.
We're TTW buddies! We did our IUI on friday. Just think, If your pregnant you will find out just befor mothers day- how special.
Hope all goes well for you, It can be very stressfull but you'll find heaps of support here.

**leah2998** · May 10th, 2009, 02:27 AM

Well, the test came back negative. It is cycle day 2 and we decided to jump right back in and try again. The doctor did change me from Clomid to Letrazol. I go in for an ultra sound to track my progress on the 19th. They still want me to use the trigger shot this cycle. I hope it works this time around. I'm not sure how much my body can take with all of the medicine. I have heard that the Letrazol has less side effects though.... we will see.

BonanzaJellybean · May 10th, 2009, 09:13 AM

The next 5 days are going to drive me crazy! I've already had two episodes of uncontrollable crying. Mostly hurt over what my life could have been. A womens health nurse said to me on Friday it's highly unlikely I would have concieved because Its highly likely I have POCS! but if it is quote "Believe it or not it's really hard to make a baby"......how come there are so many peole in the world? Or is that just some phenomonon from when the world was younger?

So after a womens health nurse, a doctor at the Ed (read my other entries about the Doc stuff up) the Psychiatrist, the Diabetes nurse and every one else who have given me negatives and told me if I was I should terminate or I 'might' die......might isn't Will and shes not my doctor!..........I don't know why I just don't book myself in for a hysterectomy and make it final forever Amen and then I won't be ble to continue living in hope that one day it might happen!

Anyhow, Now I know why I've been so tired, I was getting the flu...great, I really want to spend the next week in bed.........maybe my flu shot months ago will ease it a little bit?????

But Imay as well enjoy this time while it lasts, because next week I will get my period and reality will set in!!!!!!!!!!!

**DanilovesIvy** · May 15th, 2009, 11:00 AM

Hey, I'm Dani and my partner is Ivy. We're 21 years old, we've been together for four years and we are currently trying to become pregnant with our first child. We live in Maine, where gay marriage was just legalized a few weeks ago

and we are hoping to marry this september with a bun in the oven. I'll find out next week if the first attempt was any luck, and I get butterflies just thinking about it. I have a maternal itch going through me like nothing I've ever felt before. This is what I was born to do, and I can't wait to begin the journey.

**Nurse27** · May 15th, 2009, 11:17 AM

hi Dani & Ivy,

Welcome to BB - Best of luck with your 1st TTC!

Which of you is going to be the birth mum?

Congrats on the legalised marriage! In Australia it is still very much a no-no - but we have had a commitment ceremony which is the next best thing

**DanilovesIvy** · May 15th, 2009, 01:11 PM

Thanks

I'm (Dani) going to be the birth mother. Ivy said the only time she would give birth herself is if I could not successfully carry a baby. So I guess lesbianism has its perks.