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thread: lump on breast.. having a run of badluck (just had a m/c too)

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Jul 2005
    at Tieri now
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    lump on breast.. having a run of badluck (just had a m/c too)

    I have been going through a bit of a rough patch ever since the m/c of our baby. I found a lump on my breast. Had a mammogram and u/s on friday. Things weren't good. Had to take a biopsy. Get results on Wednesday . Please pray for me. I Am so scared. Having a bad run lately. Ever since november when I had my cone biopsy for my cervix and then the loss of our baby (3rd m/c)

    The lump I found there are abnormal cells... they also found two other lumps on the same breast (right side). The lump I found was 7cm (WTF) and all because I don't ever check... I think they took 3 biopsy's from the one lump only which he showed me on the screen with all the lovely colours....Please ladies check your breasts!

    Life is so unfair sometimes! I don't smoke, I rarely drink, am about to turn 36 next month, I am far too young for this to be happening.

    I only m/c my baby 2 weeks ago tomorrow... this is really taking it's toll on me, esp all this waiting... waiting to m/c... waiting or results...

    I have such a bad feeling.... I soooooo hope I am wrong! I am not sure how to get these horrible thoughts out of my head... I am not so worried about me as I am for my boys growing up without there mother...

    I want another baby too... if I have chemo I am thinking this is unlikely... couldn't care less about loosing my boob thou... ohhh the emotions, how do you handle them, I just feel so overwhelmed with everything that has happened and the m/c of my baby still being so raw too!

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Jul 2010
    Northern NSW
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    couldnt not post

    thinking of you

  3. #3
    BellyBelly Member

    Sep 2010
    North West Victoria, Australia
    3,003

    I had a lump when I was 16 and went through alot of tests and waiting for news. It's a scary time.

    Thinkin of you!
    So so sorry for your loss.
    xoxox

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Nov 2009
    Scottish expat living in Geelong
    5,572

    What a horrible time you have been having, I hope the results on Wednesday are better than you are thinking xx

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Sep 2005
    In the middle of nowhere
    9,362

    Oh Sheree! babe. I had no idea.
    Hang in there, whatever you need, just shout.

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Jul 2010
    Canberra
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    Thinking of you and praying for good results on Wednesday. Big hugs.

  7. #7
    Life Subscriber

    Jul 2006
    Brisbane
    6,683

    How scary for you. And the biopsies are pretty terrible things to go through so that doesn't help

    I really hope you that you get great results on Wednesday. Thinking of you

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    BellyBelly Life Member

    Jul 2004
    House of the crazy cat ladies...
    3,793

    Sheree what a really horrible and scary time for you.
    I can understand and relate to how agonizing it is to wait to get those results (I'm waiting for some atm too). All the best, and lots of hugs. Thinking of you.

  9. #9
    Registered User

    Jul 2005
    at Tieri now
    2,112

    I am sorry to hear that Ambah.. have you had a biopsy too?

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    BellyBelly Life Member

    Jul 2004
    House of the crazy cat ladies...
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    Sorry i should have been a little clearer- im waiting on biopsy results from a huge tumour on my thyroid (another 1.5 days wait i think) But I can so empathise with the anxiety, and all other emotions that you are going though... :hugs:

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    Registered User

    Jul 2005
    at Tieri now
    2,112

    what does that all mean Ambah? tumour (being cancer right?)?? Are you done having children? How old are your children?

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    BellyBelly Life Member

    Jul 2004
    House of the crazy cat ladies...
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    Tumour as in growth/nodule, it's about as big as an egg in my neck, hoping biopsy results will confirm if it's cancerous or not, but it will have to be removed either way. I have 2 kids, 3 & 6, and I am 27. I dont know if I'm planning more, as I'm single.
    Thank you for your concern hon, I don't want to take away from your thread though, it's so important that you have all the support you can. Will be praying you get good results tomorrow.

  13. #13
    Registered User

    Jul 2005
    at Tieri now
    2,112

    thanks ambah I hope you will be ok too xo

  14. #14
    BellyBelly Life Member

    Jul 2004
    House of the crazy cat ladies...
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    I really hope all is ok Sheree :hugs:

  15. #15
    Registered User

    Jul 2005
    at Tieri now
    2,112

    I have breast cancer... I never thought I would be uttering those words.... I am so upset! Hard times are ahead!

  16. #16
    BellyBelly Life Member

    Jul 2004
    House of the crazy cat ladies...
    3,793

    Oh Sheree, sweetheart I am so very sorry.. ;( What a horrible and scary time for you. We are all here for you hon. :hugs:

  17. #17
    BellyBelly Member

    Sep 2010
    North West Victoria, Australia
    3,003

    I'll be thinking of you!

    Stay positive.
    Remember, BB is always there for you.

    *hugs*

  18. #18
    Registered User

    Aug 2006
    On the other side of this screen!!!
    11,129

    Sheree It is a terrible shock, I'm so sorry to hear you have had this result. But try to hang onto the good news - treatment is effective for the vast majority of women, and there is lots of help and support along the way. You are not taking this journey alone. You will get lots more information over the next couple of weeks, I found it really helpful to keep a notebook in my handbag, any time I thought of a question I jotted it down, and so I knew what to say whenever I saw the dr. Try to take someone with you to the appointments because it's really hard to remember what they say afterwards. xxx
    PM me if you have any questions or if I can help with anything, ok?

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