Rols, my DH is perfectly content with his body and doesn't want to change it. That's really attractive! He does want to change mine, not as attractive! But then even my parents don't find me attractive... I sometimes think I'm the only person who doesn't think I look awful and even I admit I could do with losing the loose skin on my tummy.

Niass, I agree, everyone assumes that because I'm big and plain I am "grounded" and can "cope" with stuff, whereas my petite SiL and MiL and my pretty sister get so much more looking after - DH was more worried about how SiL was with her pregnancy than he was with me! And he still looks after his mummy... although he isn't going to see her for another 6 weeks because his daddy upset him. Even so, it's annoying that my looks mean no-one ever puts me first, not even my husband or my parents.