Hiya,
Yes I've been having lots of 4 year old fun. Was at wits end and found Triple P book 'preschoolers'. It's really helpful and shows the pitfalls we sometimes fall into. I am halfway through the book I got from our local library and it has given me lots of practical ideas. Hopefully there might be a triple p class I can get myself to.
How did you find PPP?

I just realised that PPP runs FREE classes through the child health clinic in my town (and in many other towns too, if anyone is interested) so I have called the lady who organises it. I am hoping to pick up some hints about our upcoming challenges, and drag a friend along with me.