These other people need to be culled
Well, my point was that whether they are attended to before crying or not, it doesn't mean we're 'breaking' them, if our intentions are to meet their needs, even with wires crossed!
Anyway, I guess there are always people who will take these things literally and will feel led up the garden path and this sets them up for failure. It's not their fault, just that it gets trotted out without considering that many people will believe just that. Like SIDS in Asian countries. Just because it doesn't have a name doesn't mean it doesn't happen. I take it to mean that because it happens far, far less it doesn't have a name in those languages. As in, it's not an epidemic, it's not a 'syndrome' because there just aren't enough cases for it to merit that tag.