* Something is only a problem if it's a problem for you or the baby (or your family)
These are all good, but I find the above one something valuable for me as a parent to have learnt. You get offered so much advise and whats right and wrong, its good to remember that some of the ideas people have about parenting now is the opposite of what it was 10 - 20 years ago, and will be different again in another 10 -20 years. So do whats right for you and your family. Something people tell you is an issue might not be for you personally if you stop and think about it