I know exactly what you're going through, that was my DD down to a tee at that age. Thing only thing I can suggest is for you to try and include her as much as you can when you're doing things.
So when you're getting her bottle ready, have her 'help' you. That way the distraction of her helping you make it up will hopefully stop the tears of wanting it NOW.
When you need to put her down, before she starts chucking a tantrum, let her know why you're putting her down, and get her to help with what you're doing. So for eg, if you're taking out the rubbish, cleaning, etc, let her do something. I used to get my DD to carry the rubbish out with me. Or if I wanted to do some cleaning, I'd give her a cloth and she'd help me clean.
I know it's very tiring and demanding having a child like this, but it does get easier. I found once I started involving my DD more, things got easier. And now, she's a piece of cake. She's forever helping me clean or cook.
Good luck.