Thanks, Janie. I actually have Toddler Tactics. But I haven't gotten to it yet. Still reading "The Science of Parenting" which really like, too. it makes you realise that it's not something you did wrong, it's normal child behaviour. And it also gives you lots of tips on how to deal with tantrums and such. but I feel DD is still a little too young to get those methods. It's so hard when they're sort of stuck between baby and toddler...
Sasa