Awe Maz I feel for you. You can't control what they think is the "right" way, the only thing you can do is to be comfortable in your own way and happy with your decisions. In the long run if you are happy then who gives 2 hoots about what anyone else thinks?

If anyone questions me or challenges me I simply tell them that parenting has many ways and I am doing what is right for MY family...but thank you very much for your point of view