I hate it when DH does the housework! I'd rather he took DS out and let me do it. I am very uncomfortable with him doing more than putting clothes in the washbin, cleaning the loo, the gardening (all of it) and the dishwasher. I really hate him vacuuming, although he is so meticulous it is quite nice when he's finished, but I still don't like it. I do all the cooking, pretty much, so can't complain there. He just helps out with the roasts and stuff.

He does know and tells me that when DS is around that's my job (or his if it's his turn or I'm not around - but DS is a full time "job" without chores thrown in) and he can do housework. Well, yesssss, but I'd rather he took DS out and I did it! That's since he started having DS when I was at work though, before he thought it was easy and a holiday! Now he's a cloth nappy addict, talks poo and nap-times, cleans like a dervish... and spends hours a day on warcrack. At least it shows I can raise a child, it has only taken me eight years to train DH up like this and DS is already loading and unloading the dishwasher so it looks like I've got the hang of this childrearing!