Its great to see some of us on the same page. Cailin, you always amaze me with how you are with Paris and you do stuff I haven't even thought of!

DH and I are very into treating Matthew how we would like to be treated. We were at the supermarket the other day and heard a dad (assuming) say to his DD (again I am assuming) 'Get out of the F******** way! 'The DD was around 7 and was only trying to her dad get to the car! I saw the look on her face, poor girl, it could have been a one off... but it was so sad to see her face. It was like he had slapped her.

My own mum called me a female dog several times when i growing up - sometimes nastily and sometimes not but I still remember that and have never forgvien her for that. I'd hate to think Matthew feeling the same way when he is older.

Matthew is just the same as us, only little so he deserves the same respect as me and DH.

I could go on and on about this lol but I won't for now!