Hey there Rah,
Sounds like Kades has a great pattern going - 10 min feed, up for about 1.5hours, sleep for about an hour... Sounds great! I'm not going to say anything new here, just that when people talk to you about routines, they are probably really thinking about older babies.
Sorry if I offend anyone - perhaps routine-talk doesn't belong in this thread, but Natalie really benefits from her routine these days, but she is 15 months old! And some days the routine gets chucked out because we have stuff on. I think that's ok - its teaching her that life doesn't always go the way you plan The routine is only useful IMO if you don't obsess over it. It is there to make everyone's life a little easier, not harder! If it is hard to get into, it is not worth it. And if it stresses you out, its only going to stress bubs out too.
Just wanted to say, whacko Babe, you're doing such a great job. Keep following your instincts because you know the best way to raise your boy.