She had a big drink before she went to bed, I got her the water and she was just sipping it GRRRR

I did say what was bothering her, she said she was scared and didn't want me to leave... but I can't be by her side until she goes to sleep every night its too hard, she takes a while to unwind. Offered her a book to read, bear/doll (she never has had a comfort item ever, so doesn't really help)

When she would get up I would tell her to go back but she would just stand in the hall and cry louder. ArgHHHH!!! I will try something else tomorrow night. Just flipped through the Science of Parenting in the bedtime section and will try that.