Sorry I said that how I felt, probably wasn't meant the way I took it. But I for upset reading about how your anxiety whilst pg affects your child's brain. And leaving them to cry also affects their brain. Now I never did CIO etc, I did the respond to baby thing even through pnd. Doesn't mean I don't feel guilty and stress that the few times I had to leave him, so I didn't explode, haven't effected him for the rest of his life.

But this is untrue, you have to allow parents leniences to make mistakes. We are only human. And just because we don't get it perfect doesn't mean we don't love our children or tend to their needs. Or that we aren't putting our children first.