i love the fb group idea. and perhaps if you know a few similar age ladies pregnant you could start a coffee group. might save some energy and the girls can bounce stuff off each other.
alot of new moms really look for answers cause the baby doesn't have instructions as we all well know.
perhaps you can mix up your answers with stuff you have learnt, your experiences and your thoughts.
sounds like you are parenting to an idea and lots don't.
i also think many things will change once the babes are born.
hugs you are a great friend and an awesome mum PZ

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