Darls, she is going to have to learn to hear no. If you are saying it gently but firmly she has to suck it up. There is clearly no intention to make her feel bad or guilty on your part - but it doesn't mean she still doesn't want her own way.

She is training you my darling! Keep going the way you are - DD was the same and we felt a bit bad. Now when she is told off (and knows she can't get away with it), she dissolves into tears and does this drama princess fling herself onto the bed. When they are older you can hear the fake cry as opposed to the real ones .