I get big time, more times than I care to remember .... " Don't you think your daughter would like a little sibling " or " Are you still trying for another baby "

For geez sake I had my daughter at 40 ... and the moment she turned '2' I am expected to fall pregnant at 42 (& a half) in an instant ... a damn miracle I'm meant to do and do it 'again ' OMG ... isn't one miracle clearly enough ??? ... If people knew my story they would know it took us 2.5yrs to concieve & before then we had gone through our hearts been ripped out with a m/c

We have been trying to fall pregnant with no#2 for 14mths now & it's hard enough as it is to deal with all the heartbreaking emotions that go with it & as time goes & my reproduction system getting older ... it just eats me up. At my age trying to fall pregnant let alone be reminded with these Questions from strangers or friends feels like hell some days

I ran into one of four Mothers from my old Mother's Group that are pregnant with their 2nd bub a few months ago & she said to DP & i " We need to get a move on with another baby & catch up with them all seeing they are all pregnant ". How can someone who is pregnant say this to someone else fully well knowing they are in their 40's. Need I say they are all younger than I ... & for all she knew I could have been trying to fall pregnant longer then them all.

Well, they have 'all' had their 2nd babies & given their 1st child a sibling ... and here I am still trying & still scared by that comment ...

People, especially pregnant women need to be more mindful as you just don't know another woman's situation