What to do? Breastfeeding, TTC and Cosleeping questions!

[Heaven]

omg I could have written that post!! All of it!!

We gave up trying to change DD months ago and we're all much happier and rested for it.

We will be TTC around June but no AF here either. I don't want to force DD to cut feeds bc I want to have another baby, that feels so unfair And I'm also scared of her weaning when I get pg again when she may not have weaned at that time iykwim. Gosh, I don't have any answers for you do I? But I can sympathise, I'm having all the same thoughts and feelings.

[Panda74]

anna, we're in the same boat - almost. My AF has returned but I'm still wondering how fertile I am as its pretty irregular ( AF returned with us doing 6 plus bfs a day).

I can sympathise as the last thing I ever imagined considering doing was putting myself or anyone else before DS. We too are so happy right now with our sleeping and feeding. However I am 36 this year so I don't have time to mess around

We still bf on demand and all through the night too. I don't know how you can reduce the night time bfs without distress.. I think a better bet would be day time as you could distract her although if you feed to sleep its impossible! One thing we did was started walking DS to sleep in his ergo carrier in the mornings which has put a bigger gap between feeds there..

Aargh its so hard isn't it!