I know how you feel anna... i always said i wanted to TTC again once DS was a year old.. and i was going to try and wean if AF hadnt shown up by then. Well AF showed up when he was 11 months old and we were still feeding whenever whereever and how much ever he wanted!! Co-sleeping too!! I had nothing feeding wise change from 10 months to the 11 months but AF showed up to stop me from having to think about weaning!!

So af became regular and i kept feeding 24/7 and four months later i got my BFP. It wasnt until i was about 12 weeks that i started to conciously drop DS's feeds- i just stopped the snacking ones where he would have a few sucks then be off to play again- and for another month or so i kept feeding him to sleep. He was 17 months when we fully weaned him- so i was happy to know i got those extra few months of feeding him and didnt have to wean. Oh and our night feeds wer the very last to go- he would go to sleep without boobie- and sleep in his bed- but if he woke during the night he came to our bed and i would still feed him- that was our last feed to go- as it became early morning instead of the middle of the night.

I dont know how i would have gone if i actually did have to wean to get AF back- i was lucky there, i felt better knowing that i didnt wean until i felt ready instead of pushing myself and DS to get what i wanted. I would maybe just relax- and while yes you want another bub- but even to say once AF arrives your not going to nessecarily fall right away- so you are then missing out on those months of feeding on demand while you even wait for that.

I would give it a bit longer- a few months isnt much in the scheme of things, and your DD may stop feeding as much on her own, or not and you still might get AF back- i know people who have gotten AF bacjk 6 weeks after birth and were exclusively feeding their newborn!!!

Good luck!!