Hmm. Well, like I said, Jazz doesn't put herself to sleep. i either have to feed her, or one of us rocks her or pats her. She'll also go to sleep if one of us is next to her, which we'll do if she has a bad night or soemthing.

I guess... if someone said to me right now "thats because you co-sleep", I'd probably just say... well, co-sleeping gave her almost 14 months (plus we still bring her into our bed if she needs us) off loving comfort, security, and knowing we were always close... if the trade off is that she doesn't put herself to sleep... I'll take co-sleeping any day. No, i wasn't willing to let her CIO in any way shape or form just so she could 'learn' how to 'self-settle'. Jazz knows security, not abandonment.