Homebirth General Discussion #1

[LionsandBears]

Just checking in to see how Bimboo's birthing went

[Tegam]

Just checking in to see how Bimboo's birthing went

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[Tegam]

oh bimboo my heart screams for you and both your daughters. What a horrible mix of confusions you must be feeling and pressure you must feel under to appear happy. Is there anything I can do? want a visitor that you can be honest with?

[Smoke Jaguar]

Oh, babe, thanks for posting in here - we shared a journey, it's only fitting
Can't the 6 or so ambos help a doctor wield the pen for a signature??? How arrogant!
I don't have time for a proper post, but I'll be back

[Traveller]

Bimboo I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I don't really know what to say. I can imagine the comments you may get about at least you have one baby, but of course you want both your babies. How conflicted you must be trying to celebrate the joy or your living child whilst grieving the loss of your angel. I am thinking of you and both your girls.

T
xx

[LionsandBears]

Bimboo - I am so sorry for your loss I can only imagine how devastated you and DH are.

I can see why people prefer to focus on the positives, but how is the death of one child any less just because you have another living one? If they weren't twins, maybe they'd understand more. I don't know, I can only think it must make everything so much harder.

Thinking of you.

[Schmickers]

Bimboo - my condolences on the death of your beautiful twin girl.

Try not to hold too much animosity towards the doctors, everyone - it isn't that they are refusing to sign the death certificate, it is that they are required to certify the cause of death, and if they don't know that cause, then they can't sign the certificate.

I hope that in time you can find a way to mourn Elliana and celebrate Ariyen's life.