I find it hard to! My sis wants a baby and she lives in Sydney and I'm trying to gently convince her to at least get into a birth centre rather than hospital. Thank goodness mum backed me up on this too. I can't go to harshly though because she already thinks I'm some weird gomebirthing extended tandem breastfeeding hippy. But she's my sister and of course I worry for her. I want to get her a book to read (she's not pregnant yet though) because she loves reading. Any suggestions? But something that's not to you know (can't think of the word). Don't mind me I always have blank spaces for words because I can't think of them half the time.