Welcome RhiRhi!! Congratulations on your pregnancy!! I'm with the others on the behaviour of your FS. Very unethical behaviour. And you absolutely do NOT have to do anything you dont want to. And that includes any antenatal testing. I'd just ignore him from here on out and continue planning for the pregnancy and birth that you and your family want.

Kelly - Not long to go now hun!! Hope your not too uncomfortable.

Cassius - Welcome home hun!! Happy nesting

Hi everyone else

I'm still deciding who's going to be at the birth with us (me). As its not looking in finding an IM to support the birth, I've asked a friend of mine who's a Doula (and has freebirthed and homebirthed 2 of her babes) to be there. My mum has been at all of my births and my sister was at my DD2's. I was thinking that I only wanted it to be DP, the girls and I (and the birth support) this time but DP and I are yet again on the rocks so if he's not at the birth I will ask my mum and sister down to support the girls. There will also be a birth photographer (or 2). So all up there will be a decent crowd. Which being a very internal birther, I'm not too phased about.