I am sure my sil knows EXACTLY how u feel... Her births got progressively quicker but her dh was insistent on going to hosp. She ended up getting to the hospital about 10min before delivering with her 3rd & gave birth in the hospital CAR PARK (on a matress in thier car which was meant to be for her dh to get some sleep if he couldn't find a hotel as they live out of town) anyway I don't know how she did it but I don't know what it'd be like attempting hb without a supportive partner either, I guess unfortunately u seem to be stuck in a really tricky spot. I hope ur dh comes around with some 'education' & talking to mw