Thanks Bella, she's a big help/support.

Just on children at birth. We were a little concerned when DD was at DS's birth as she is a very sensitive kid, she used to cry when people blew their nose! Anyway she woke a few times during the night but DH was able to settle her again. Then when she woke closer to the birth we used her to BF to bring on contractions. Then with the noises I was making she would copy and then start laughing!!! Was quite cute. She was fine when he was born but cried when DH tried to stop her getting to close to DS so that was a mistake as she thought she wasn't allowed to be included.