Well we talked with DD1 (the sensitive one) and I explained its normal and that mommy might be a little in pain but that its a good pain. We asked her if she wanted to be there and she said yes she really does so I think we will give her a chance. My parents house is a couple houses down so if all else fails she can join her little sister. My family doesn't deal well with toddlers under stress and I don't want to deal with parenting while in labor so little sister will be definitely be going to nana and papas