I love the way you look at it Cricket - DH has basically said that if I want it, I can have another one, however, I'm not clucky at all - yet I don't feel my family is complete either? Its very strange. I'm not the biggest fan of newborns (and I admit it!) they are cute, squishy and everything, but they frustrate me cos I never know what they want. I'm a toddler/kid person I think. When I start having an idea of what they need, I don't feel so useless so perhaps thats why I'm not clucky? I don't know. So confused.

As for PPH - does it matter if it was before or after the placenta was birthed? Both of mine happened after my placenta had come out. (apparently - DH told me!)