I was surprised Jen cos my other births cost $1500 for Eden and $2000 for Sahti - so to jump up $3000 - woooweee!!

Don't lose hope for your partner either - DH only wanted 3!!! LOL He probably still only wanted 3, but my happiness meant more to him than what essentially he wouldn't be having much to do with anyway (ie, pregnancy, birthing, feeding etc - he's a hands on dad, so don't think otherwise..LOL)