I had a rough time finding a m/w since I was due Jan 1, so I wasn't quite as relaxed as you!
I had my m/w, second m/w once second stage started, and Christy as my doula. I hardly noticed my second m/w, although I had spent time getting to know her throughout the pg. Mel, my m/w, basically supervised and kept the conversation going. She checked the baby's heartrate with a doppler. Mel was the m/w I needed because I think she understood I wanted to do it myself, with minimal interruption.
Christy brought food and drink, got me drinks of water and applied pressure to my lower back. She helped DP get the birth pool ready too. She gave me physical support, basically (as well as emotional). She also took some photos. As we'd never been through labour and birth before, she was there to take the burden off DP too. He could focus on the practical stuff and provide encouragement, but he wasn't my only support ITMS. Christy had also had a VBAC so understood what it meant to me.







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