hi guys!

Neenee: oh wow! congratulations!!! thank you so much for sharing your experience. in fact, it was just like that for me too at the hospital. they were just doing things to me and i had no voice. so not what i was after!

kymmy: yeah the de-brief is soo important. i really truly missed that after the birth of DD. i just wanted someone to go through it with me. i had no idea of apgar scores, times of labour (not that i was mega interested in that side of things, but just to give insight into how much they didnt tell me...i even had to ask what she weighed!). de-brief is sooo important and so so underplayed in mainstream maternity care it aint funny.