The second time around, I was able to cope with the pain easily. Despite having an epi, narcotic AND gas the first time and nothing the second time, I was physically waaay more comfortable the second time. So much so in fact I was totally surprised when the urge to push came, I didn't even realize I'd transitioned lol. I don't want to play down how intense it was but just that it wasn't scary, I was able to cope because I was relaxed and comfortable and cared for. I never felt cared for in hospital.
Your experience second time around sounds like mine.

I had a horrible birth experience first time around. Second time I went through a Birthing Centre that offered Govt funded home births - we had that as an option, but I ended up going through the Birth Centre because they had beautiful, homely rooms and everything I could want.

I didn't realise I was in labour until almost 1 hour before my daughter was born and I can't say it hurt until 15 minutes before she arrived - even then it was more pressure and an overwhelming pushing feeling.

Good for you honey for making this decision - I promise you'll love it!!