Jackrose mentioned "Ina May's Guide to Childbirth"..... If you haven't already I suggest you read it! I read it, honestly, about 20 times during my pregnancy and it helped me so so so much!
Also i forgot to say that on the final visit my midwife gave me my birth notes.. it is like a diary! Everything that happened during the labour is written down (with times), even things that were said! It is so good to have this as it is so easy to forget what happened. I cried when i read mine.. it is so beautiful. Ask your midwife if they do this too.
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