This is exactly why we went with a home birth for arquene!
and now thinking about it i never gave permission for internals or the episiotomy! i think that if i/we was to complain against the doctor who did these to me our hospital would start to get people to sign a concent form before we even go in to labour!

I hate that women have to go through this... its just not fair! i wish everyone could have the most amazing birth that we are entitled to! with out the doctors/nurses getting there grubby mits involved!