Its not a whinge at all, and you are totally entitled to grieve!!!

- but.....

its absolutely amazing that your little DS is flat out refusing you. He must know something is up - looks like he will be the best big brother ever, if he is already looking out for the little one!

Congrats, have a happy and healthy preg and let those boobies get some rest - the little factory wil be kicking in again soon enough