Janie... thanks too for your post. I missed it as I was writing up my response to Barb.

I'm really easy going... so I don't mind if my baby breast feeds or formula feeds. I am happy that I have been more successful this time with the breastfeeding though. I know that it's 'best' for my baby (although I never had any health problems with DS).
I think there are benefits of b/f & f/f. Both are convenient at different times. I am happy enough to offer both breast or formula. But I would prefer it to be one or the other - rather then a marathon 2+ hour feeding session with breast, EBM AND formula! It seems that DD is starting to change her eating/sleeping habits on her own now... but the advice that's been given is great.