I might pop in and see her today. I know she's home doing a mountain of ironing after her holiday hehe. We have talked about breastfeeding before, so I can definitely bring it up.

She didn't know what the ABA was, so I doubt she's had a bad experience with them.

Thanks everyone.

Rory - we do have a relationship like that, so probably she isn't upset at all, it was probably just an initial reaction to what I said, but it's stuck with me making me feel uneasy. So I might just check with her that I haven't upset her.