My DD is 2 years 4 months (on the 30th) and she usually has a feed in the morning (when I'm trying to avoid getting up ), sometimes has a feed to sleep during the day. Then sometimes at night time if she wakes up. We've spent a lot of time cutting down that far, and the last couple of days she's been asking a lot.

Just follow your instincts. Only you and your son know what's best for you both, and I'm sure you won't traumatise him by cutting down his feeds.