Hmmm i guess its just his personality and that need for comfort... though when i offer a hug instead he pushes me away, i think because he's annoyed i won't give him a BF. My instinct says keep going, be gentle - but logically i can't keep this up, its been 5 months now feeding both of them and apart from being exhausted it isn't helping with my pnd either, i really need a bit of personal space. Its hard i guess.